Stop thinking you can turn a straight guy gay. You won’t. You can’t. Because they’re straight. Gay guys get so offended when someone asked what turned them gay or why don’t they just turn straight. “I’m gay I was born this way I can’t change.” Oh but apparently straight guys can and should “turn” gay? No. Just stop. Don’t believe the porn videos or other people’s stories of sleeping with straight men. Cause odds are those guys were not really straight, they were just in the closet, or even bisexual. And if you hear a gay guy say anything along the lines of, “I got him drunk”, or “He was drunk”, then that guy raped him. It is the exact same thing that happens to women. If the guy is intoxicated, if anyone is intoxicated for that matter it is not a consent to try and sleep with them! All in all just move on cause you are not getting with a straight guy.
If I could give advice to young gay guys just discovering their sexuality, the first thing I would tell them would be to stay away from the gay community. It influences gay guys in a very bad and negative way. It may seem like it’s all love and equality, but that’s only for a certain few. If you don’t meet it’s standards of a gay man, you don’t matter. Don’t try to fit in to the gay community, because you may end up doing things you don’t even like and will definitely regret. Don’t worry about not making friends or finding someone. Make friends with people, whether they be straight, bi, transgendered, asexual, or gay, who are good people and are going to treat you with respect and will be good to you. Don’t worry about being on the “gay scene”. It’s nothing fantastic. Don’t think that finding out your gay means you have to experience what it’s like and sleep with a bunch of guys. There is little to no difference between dating in a heterosexual relationship or a homosexual one. You’re just going to be with the same sex. The basic rules still apply. Date someone who you genuinely like and care about. If you guys stay together and get married then great. If not then learn from that relationship, stay single for a while and take care of you and start over. Do the normal dating thing. The gay community is obsessed with sex, you don’t have to be. Just be you. You are (whatever your name is) and a gay person second. Your sexuality does not rule your life.
I don’t think the whole “it’s natural” thing is a good argument for changing people’s minds about gays. We are very different from animals. Something that happens often in the animal kingdom is cannibalism, and I’m sure we can all agree that that’s something that’s not gonna be accepted into society anytime soon. Another thing I think is a bad argument is the whole divorce thing. So some straight people get divorced. Do you really think gays are never gonna get a divorce?